Douglas Schweitzer over on his ComputerWorld blog has an article up on the proposed legislation by Senators Murphy and Stevens banning the use of social networking sites in public schools and libraries. Unlike most of the coverage of this proposed legislation I have seen, Douglas seems to support it. Maybe he does not realize that the way it is currently written, such sites as Wikipedia would be banned as well. That would be a real shame, as even my young sons have started to use the Wiki for school research. However, I have a bigger a problem with what Douglas writes.
Douglas seems to be proud that Suffolk County, Long Island (I lived in Dix Hills in Suffolk before moving to Florida, so know it well) has already banned MySpace and the like from libraries there. I don’t know if they have also banned Wikipedia, but the real point is, Douglas does that make your children safer? Do you think all of the sexual predators are on MySpace? Do you honestly think cocooning your children is going to keep them safe. There comes a point where they have to live in the real world as it is. I am against censorship in any public forum, unless you are talking about obscenity or other illegal acts. I think your job as a parent is to do your best to make sure you child understands right from wrong, is not a “victim” that is easily fooled by predators and that you can trust to do the right thing. This sort of attitude reminds me of the parents who always wanted to “hide” the drug issue from their children. You know what, those kids wound up being the biggest drug abusers. My child in second grade is already learning drugs are bad. The philosophy is that if you have not talked to your child about drugs by the time they are in second grade, someone else has. Same thing here. If you think banning MySpace is going to keep your kids from learning things or being exposed to predators, brother do I have a bridge to sell you. Douglas does not want his kids learning their sex-ed on the internet. Douglas here is a news flash, your kids are going to learn about sex-ed on the internet, whether you ban MySpace or not. In fact the internet is just todays tool to learn about sex-ed. Douglas where did you learn about it? Did you sit down and have the birds and bees talk with your dad or had you already been exposed by some of your more daring friends in school. I think artificial constraints just don’t work and don’t accomplish the goals. Better to educate children on how to use and benefit from using MySpace the right way then to ban it all together.
The other problem is today My Space, tomorrow what? It used to be the AOL chat rooms. Who is going to decide what my child can and cannot see. I don’t want the US Senate (some of whom have never been on the net and don’t have a clue) or some local library board making that decision. As a parent I reserve that right to myself. I will make that decision and stay out of my business!